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That is why TR works. Male pursues female. Why not 5 stars. People in general value what's scarce. Sex is only for marriage, not for dating or engagement. She is allowing men to come to her, which is the way it should be. Premarital sex short-circuits further premarital romance, post-marriage romance, and decreases a female's chances of marriage to that male.
He has to figure out a way to pin her down. You what your daughters to be respected. No you wouldn't. The more a male has to do this, the more valuable she becomes, especially if tons of other males are chasing the same female.First and foremost, when a woman is "doing" TR, she isn't "doing" them to anyone. Think for a minute, those with daughters: would you want your daughter to chase after boys.
When women make themselves too available to men, men cease to value women. To fight that is to fight nature. She is modifying her self-destructive dating behavior and allowing herself to relax instead of being all worked up and worried over something, or someone, that she doesn't have. When women make themselves elusive, it turns on a male's pursuit drive. She is "doing" them to herself.
If she wouldn't answer my email why would I keep writing her. Men, read this book so you will know which women to avoid. Thank God I'm no longer in the game and am spoken for. No wonder online personals are packed with grossly overweight females with a brood of offspring making demands as to "what they want in a man". Men if you find out a woman uses this book kick her to the curb and find a real woman.Women could just learn to be kind, caring and honest but.oh that is too much work.nevermind.This book is full of crap, like only answering one of every four of his emails. Ha.what a joke.
You deserve it. Fake it until you make it. If you love yourself unconditionally, you will find a man who does the same. Right. Let him CALL YOU--he'll be happier to hear your voice than read it, anyway. The rules are not intuitive.
If you are a "catch," act like one. If you are a highly intelligent, desirable woman, and you wonder why the guy always seems to lose interest as you fall harder, here's why: You're not following THE RULES. The minute I started adhering to the principles the authors listed, my relationships turned around and/or I weeded out the guys who just cared about the physical aspect of our relationship. Don't text a man anything longer than one line at the beginning stages of a relationship.
Ladies, turn off AIM and only use facebook for contacting your girlfriends. In this day and age, with so much technological accessibility, the rules are more pertinent than ever. It's not deception. You can't afford to not follow these rules.
These authors should be commended for teaching women that they are worthy of the best. For highly sensitive, analytical people like myself who are prone to overnanalyzing every little word and action of the opposite sex, these rules are necessary. It's called self respect. Ladies, snag a man who wants to be with YOU and ONLY YOU by following the rules.
There's a 99% chance a guy with good self esteem who WANTS YOU will respond to Rules behavior. Even he himself claims he likes an "honest, open, loving woman," that doesn't mean he wants you to be an open book, showering him with love and attention. If you're the intellectual, confident type, you will balk at the thought of being forced to sit back and not invest all your energy and charms into the relationship in hopes of "snagging" Mr. Save your time and sanity and let the man do the work.
Most people will think you're not into them.3) Not meeting ANYONE halfway seems like a sure-fire, slam-bang way to find yourself alone. Your choices.
Think about that for a second.It does seem a little feminist, but also very "Stepford Wives" or for a more modern reference, "Bree VanDeKamp" from "Desperate Housewives".Anything will work for certain people some of the time, but we would hesitate to think this is some kind of "must-have" volume. 1) seem desperate (with him seeming just as desperate), or sit home alone Friday night.
We want to say first off that no one in our office has read this that we are aware of.The only comment we want to make is based on some common sense.1) The only "rules" you need are the ones you create. Hey, if a guy calls, that means he must not have anything going on either.ever think of that.
It seems a tad outdated.not for the more liberated woman.but if you really need the help, then go for it. That's the kind that work best for you.2) Playing hard to get only works for so long.
Who the heck would want to be with someone who won't meet you at least halfway.4) Never accept a phone call late in the week or a date.
Hot women with pleasant personality will naturally be hard to get since they are genuinely rare and have lot of options. This book basically tried to teach ugly women to sell their 2-cent pu**y for a million dollar using scare tactics. The problem is: a millionaire knows exactly the value of the goods: 2-cent.
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